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Encouragement for Hard Seasons: What the Bible Says

When life is hard, you need more than platitudes. Real encouragement from Scripture and real stories of people who found God faithful in their hardest seasons.

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When life falls apart, you do not need another motivational poster. You need something that holds weight at 2 AM when you cannot sleep, when the diagnosis is bad, when the person you loved is gone, when your faith feels like a lie. This article is not here to fix you. It is here to sit with you, point you to Scripture that tells the truth, and remind you that others have survived what you are facing.

You already know the verses people quote at you. "God has a plan." "Everything happens for a reason." "Just have faith."

And you already know those words can feel like sandpaper on an open wound.

So let's do something different. Let's be honest about what the Bible actually says about suffering, look at real stories of people who made it through, and give you somewhere to go when you need more than a text message from a well-meaning friend.

When Platitudes Do Not Cut It

"God has a plan" does not help when you cannot stop crying.

"This too shall pass" does not help when you have been in the valley for years.

"Just trust God" does not help when trust is the exact thing that feels impossible right now.

These phrases are not technically wrong. Some of them are even rooted in Scripture. But timing matters. Context matters. And when someone is drowning, they do not need a theology lecture. They need a hand.

This article will not give you bumper sticker theology. It will not wrap suffering in a neat bow. It will not pretend that hard seasons are easy if you just pray hard enough.

What it will give you: real Scripture that tells the truth about pain, real stories from people who found God faithful in the worst of it, and a real place to go when you need encouragement that does not feel hollow.

If you are in a hard season right now, you are not reading this by accident. Stay with it.

What the Bible Actually Says About Hard Seasons

The Bible is not a self-help book. It does not promise a pain-free life. In fact, it promises the opposite. Jesus told his followers, "In this world you will have trouble" (John 16:33). That is not pessimism. It is honesty. And honesty is where real encouragement starts.

God Is With You in It (Not Just After It)

One of the most misquoted ideas in faith is that God will remove your suffering. Sometimes he does. Often, he does something harder to understand: he walks through it with you.

Look at the language of Scripture:

"Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me." (Psalm 23:4, NASB)

Notice: through the valley. Not around it. Not above it. Through it. David did not write this from a place of comfort. He wrote it from a place of danger, surrounded by enemies, uncertain of what came next. And his confidence was not that God would remove the valley. It was that God would be in the valley with him.

"When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they will not overflow you." (Isaiah 43:2, NASB)

Again: through the waters, not around them. God does not promise dry land. He promises presence. That distinction matters more than most sermons acknowledge.

If you are in a hard season, the question is not "Where is God?" The answer is: he is in it with you. Not watching from a distance. Not waiting for you on the other side. With you, right now, in the middle of it.

Hard Seasons Have Limits

This is not about minimizing your pain. It is about providing honest perspective: what you are enduring is real, and it is also not forever.

"For momentary, light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory far beyond all comparison." (2 Corinthians 4:17, NASB)

Paul wrote those words from prison. He had been shipwrecked, beaten, stoned, and left for dead. He was not calling suffering "light" because he had not experienced it. He was calling it "momentary" because he had experienced something heavier: the glory of God. That is not dismissal. That is proportion. Paul could hold both truths at once: this is agony, and this is temporary.

"Weeping may last for the night, but a shout of joy comes in the morning." (Psalm 30:5, NASB)

The night is real. The weeping is real. The psalmist does not skip over it. He acknowledges that some nights feel endless. But he also says: morning comes. Not because you earned it. Not because you prayed the right prayer. Because God is faithful, and hard seasons have limits.

If you are in the middle of the night right now, hear this: the night is real. And morning is coming.

You Are Allowed to Grieve

One of the most damaging ideas in modern faith culture is that grief and faith cannot coexist. That if you are sad, you are not trusting God. That if you are angry, you have a spiritual problem.

The Bible disagrees.

"Jesus wept." (John 11:35, NASB)

Jesus stood at the grave of his friend Lazarus, knowing he was about to raise him from the dead, and wept. He did not skip to the miracle. He did not say, "Why are you all crying? I have this handled." He grieved. God incarnate, standing at a graveside, crying.

If Jesus wept, you are allowed to weep.

David, the man after God's own heart, wrote entire psalms of lament. "How long, O LORD? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?" (Psalm 13:1, NASB). That is not weak faith. That is honest faith. David brought his grief, his anger, and his confusion directly to God and did not apologize for it.

Faith and grief are not opposites. You can trust God and still be heartbroken. You can believe in God's goodness and still be furious about what happened to you. You can hold onto hope and still cry yourself to sleep. The psalms prove it. Jesus proves it.

If someone tells you to "just have faith" when you are grieving, they mean well. But they are wrong. Grieve. Bring it to God. He can handle it.

God Uses the Hard Stuff

This is the part where Romans 8:28 usually gets weaponized. Someone quotes it at you before the funeral is even over: "All things work together for good."

Let's handle this verse with the care it deserves.

"And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose." (Romans 8:28, NASB)

This verse does not say all things are good. Cancer is not good. Betrayal is not good. The death of someone you love is not good. The verse says God works all things together for good. That is a different claim entirely. It is a claim about God's character, not about your circumstances.

"Consider it all joy, my brothers and sisters, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance." (James 1:2-4, NASB)

James does not say trials are joyful. He says to consider it joy because trials produce something. Endurance. Character. A faith that has been tested and did not break. That is not a platitude. That is a process, and it is usually painful.

If you are in a hard season, you do not need to pretend it is good. You do not need to find the silver lining today. You just need to know: God is not wasting this. Even when you cannot see what he is doing, he is working.

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15 Scriptures for When Life Is Hard

Sometimes you do not need an explanation. You need a verse. Here are fifteen, organized by what you are feeling, with honest context for each.

When You Are Anxious

Philippians 4:6-7 : "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (NASB)

Paul is not saying anxiety is a sin. He is offering an alternative: instead of spiraling alone, bring it to God. The peace he describes is not the absence of problems. It is a peace that does not make logical sense given your circumstances. That is what "surpasses all comprehension" means.

1 Peter 5:7 : "Casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you." (NASB)

The word "casting" is active. It is not a gentle release. It is a throw. Peter is saying: hurl your anxiety at God. He can take it. And the reason is not that your problems are small. The reason is that he cares for you.

Matthew 6:25-27 : "For this reason I say to you, do not be worried about your life... Who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life?" (NASB)

Jesus asks a practical question: has worry ever solved anything? Not "stop feeling anxious" but "notice that worry does not produce results." Then he points to birds and flowers and says: if God takes care of them, he will take care of you. That is not naive optimism. That is an argument from evidence.

When You Are Grieving

Psalm 34:18 : "The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (NASB)

God does not distance himself from grief. He draws near to it. If you are brokenhearted right now, you are not far from God. You are exactly where he comes closest.

Revelation 21:4 : "He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain." (NASB)

This is a future promise, not a present fix. And that is important. It means God acknowledges that tears, death, mourning, crying, and pain are real. He does not dismiss them. He promises to end them. One day, permanently. Until then, he holds space for your grief.

Matthew 5:4 : "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." (NASB)

Jesus calls mourners blessed. Not because mourning is good, but because mourners are positioned to receive comfort. The comfort comes from God, and it often comes through other people who have mourned before you.

When You Are Doubting

Mark 9:24 : "I do believe; help my unbelief." (Berean Standard Bible)

This might be the most honest prayer in the Bible. A father, desperate for his sick child to be healed, admits to Jesus: I believe and I doubt at the same time. Jesus does not rebuke him. He heals the child. God does not require perfect faith. He works with honest faith, even when it is riddled with doubt.

Psalm 13:1-2 : "How long, O LORD? Will You forget me forever? How long will You hide Your face from me? How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart all the day?" (NASB)

David felt forgotten by God. He said so, out loud, on the record. This psalm is in the Bible because God wants you to know that doubt is not disqualifying. Bring it to him. He would rather have your honest doubt than your dishonest certainty.

Habakkuk 1:2-3 : "How long, O LORD, will I call for help, and You will not hear? I cry out to You, 'Violence!' yet You do not save." (NASB)

Habakkuk looked at the world, saw injustice everywhere, and asked God: why are you not doing anything? God answered. Not with a rebuke, but with a plan Habakkuk could not yet see. If you are looking at your life and asking "why," you are in good company.

When You Are Exhausted

Matthew 11:28-30 : "Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." (NASB)

Jesus does not say, "Try harder." He says, "Come to me." The invitation is for the weary, not the strong. If you are exhausted, physically, emotionally, or spiritually, this verse is specifically for you. Not for the people who have it together. For you, right now, running on empty.

Isaiah 40:31 : "Yet those who wait for the LORD will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not become weary." (NASB)

The key word is "wait." Not strive. Not hustle. Wait. Sometimes the most faithful thing you can do in a hard season is stop trying to fix everything and simply wait for God to renew your strength.

Psalm 55:22 : "Cast your burden upon the LORD, and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken." (NASB)

"Sustain" does not mean "make comfortable." It means "keep you standing." God does not promise the burden will disappear. He promises you will not collapse under it.

When You Are Lonely

Deuteronomy 31:6 : "Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the LORD your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you." (NASB)

This was spoken to the Israelites before they entered hostile territory. They were about to face armies, uncertainty, and the unknown. God's promise was not "this will be easy." It was "I will be with you." If you feel alone, hear this: God has not left.

Psalm 139:7-10 : "Where can I go from Your Spirit? Or where can I flee from Your presence? If I ascend to heaven, You are there; if I make my bed in Sheol, behold, You are there." (NASB)

David describes a God who is inescapable, in the best possible way. You cannot go somewhere God is not. Even in the darkest, lowest place you have ever been, he is there. Not because you invited him. Because that is who he is.

Hebrews 13:5 : "I will never desert you, nor will I ever abandon you." (NASB)

Five words. No conditions. No caveats. "I will never abandon you." If loneliness is what you are fighting, let this verse be the ground under your feet.

Real Stories of People Who Made It Through

Scripture matters. But sometimes you also need to know that a real person, someone like you, faced something like what you are facing and survived it. Not perfectly. Not without scars. But they survived.

These stories are drawn from the kinds of testimonies you will find in The Grace Record, a library of 1,600+ curated stories of God's faithfulness across centuries and continents.

Depression and Finding God in the Dark

Charles Spurgeon, one of the most celebrated preachers in history, battled severe depression for most of his adult life. He called it "the worst feature of my malady" and spoke openly about it from the pulpit. There were Sundays he could barely stand to preach. There were seasons he could not leave his bed. He did not pretend faith made depression disappear. Instead, he wrote: "I could say with Job, 'My soul chooseth strangling rather than life.' I could readily enough have laid violent hands upon myself, to escape from my misery of spirit." Spurgeon survived. He preached. He wrote. He was honest about his darkness, and his honesty has given permission to generations of believers to be honest about theirs. He found God not by escaping the dark, but by discovering that God was already in it.

Financial Loss and Unexpected Provision

George Muller ran orphanages in Bristol, England, in the 1800s. He cared for over 10,000 orphans during his lifetime and never once asked for donations. He only prayed. There were mornings when the children sat at the breakfast table with empty plates and Muller prayed for the meal they did not have. Minutes later, a baker knocked on the door with bread he had baked through the night, feeling compelled to bring it. A milk cart broke down outside the orphanage and the driver offered his entire load rather than let it spoil. Muller's journals document hundreds of these moments: desperate need, honest prayer, specific provision. Not wealth. Not comfort. Provision. Enough for today. If you are facing financial hardship and wondering whether God sees you, Muller's story says: he does.

Persecution and Enduring Faith

Brother Yun, known as "the heavenly man," was a house church leader in China who was imprisoned, beaten, and tortured multiple times for his faith. His legs were broken. He was starved. He was separated from his family for years at a time. In prison, he led other inmates to faith. When he was released, he went back to preaching. When he was arrested again, he prayed. His story, recorded in his autobiography, is not a triumphant narrative of easy victory. It is a story of suffering that did not end neatly. He lost years. He carries physical scars. And he will tell you that God was present in every prison cell, every beating, every moment of isolation. His faith did not prevent suffering. It sustained him through it.

Chronic Illness and Peace Without Healing

Joni Eareckson Tada became a quadriplegic at seventeen after a diving accident. She has lived in a wheelchair for over fifty years. She has prayed for healing thousands of times. Healing has not come. And she will tell you, with tears and honesty, that she has found peace in the middle of it. Not because she stopped wanting to walk. Not because she stopped asking God to heal her. Because she discovered that God's presence is not contingent on physical restoration. She writes, paints (holding the brush in her teeth), and advocates for disability rights around the world. Her testimony is not "God healed me." It is "God has not healed me, and he is still good." That kind of faith is harder and more honest than any miracle story.

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What to Do Right Now (If You Are in a Hard Season)

If you have read this far, you are probably not looking for theory. You are looking for something to do. Here are four things, and they are honest.

Stop Pretending You Are Fine

Psalm 88 is the only psalm in the Bible that does not resolve. It starts in darkness and ends in darkness. "You have removed my acquaintances far from me; You have made me an object of loathing to them; I am shut up and cannot go out" (Psalm 88:8, NASB). There is no "but God" at the end. No redemptive twist.

Why is this psalm in the Bible? Because God wants you to know that honesty is welcome. You do not need to perform spiritual health. You do not need to put a brave face on for God. If you are not fine, say so. Write it down. Pray it. Scream it into a pillow. God already knows. He is not offended by your honesty. He is inviting it.

Find One Testimony That Resonates

When your own faith feels fragile, lean on someone else's. This is why The Grace Record exists. Search for what you are going through. "Depression." "Grief." "Financial crisis." "Chronic pain." "Doubt."

You will find someone who faced what you are facing and made it through. Not with a neat resolution. Not with a three-step formula. But they made it. And their story can carry you when yours feels too heavy. The Grace Record holds 1,600+ curated testimonies, and they are searchable by topic, emotion, and season of life.

Talk to Someone

Isolation is the enemy of survival. You were not designed to carry this alone.

Talk to a friend. Not a surface-level friend, but someone who can handle your honesty. Talk to a counselor or therapist if you have access to one. Talk to a pastor who listens more than they lecture. And if you do not have anyone to call, try Text Engage or Voice Engage, a conversation grounded in Scripture and testimony that is available whenever you need it.

Important: Engage is not counselling, therapy, or medical advice. If you are in crisis, please contact a licensed professional or call 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline).

Revisit What God Already Said

This is the spiritual discipline of remembering. You may not have new words from God right now. That is okay. Go back to the old ones.

What did God say the last time you were in a hard season? What verse carried you through the last crisis? What encouragement did someone speak into your life that changed your direction?

Past faithfulness is evidence for present trust. And the encouragement God gave you years ago often speaks louder now than the day you first received it. You have survived 100% of your worst days so far. God was in every one of them. He is in this one too.

If you have never built a practice of remembering what God said, start now. Even one sentence in a journal. Even one voice note on your phone. Doxa was built for exactly this: helping you record, remember, and revisit what God has said, so you have something to hold onto when the next hard season comes. And it will come. But you will not be empty-handed.

A Prayer for the Hard Season

You do not have to pray this perfectly. You do not have to feel anything while you say it. Just bring the words to God and let him meet you.

God, I am tired. I am hurting. I do not understand what you are doing and I am not sure I trust you right now. But I am here. I am bringing you my pain because I do not know where else to take it. I need you in this. Not after it. In it. Right now.

Remind me of what you have already said. Bring me a story of someone who survived this. Send me someone who will sit with me instead of fixing me. And give me the strength to get through today. Just today.

I believe. Help my unbelief.

Amen.


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